Monday, July 21, 2008

The theory of attraction?

Now, when I hear "the theory of attraction" it sounds like a "men are from mars and women..etc", but as I learned the other day (while pacing around the house with a screaming baby) on Oprah, its about getting what you want out of life. that is my understanding of it, at any rate. The basic schpeel is that you put good energy out into the universe and good comes back, but you also have to, now on this I'm a little cloudy, look for what you want? envision what you want? focus on what you want? There were three women up there talking to Oprah about their books on this topic, and they all had a lot to say, so it's a little jumbled in my head right now.

The part that I honed in on was this; making a vision board. You're suppose to take a piece of poster board or a bulletin board or something, and fasten to it things you want. You are suppose to do this all the time, and leave it up where you can see it, and look at it every day. Of course, they suggested cutting things out of magazines that represent things that you want. Not just material things, but romantically, educationally, spiritually, whatever.



So I bit. I am own little Van Goh, so I have poster board around. I thought finding things to put on it might be a little difficult, so I cut it down to about 11x13. It has in fact been hard, but I'm blaming the magazines. I had magazines around the house, but they were all about pretty much the same things: horses, golf, and catalogs, oh and spin mag. So I've sat down 3 times so far to add things to my vision board. The first time, with just the mags i had at home. The racing one was full of phrases and words that I could Identify with and wanted or wanted to feel.

"Prized", "Change In the Weather", "Smart Guy", "Peace". I found an old an old natural cures catalog around the house and found some bits of nature i felt would fit in: a magnolia (favorite flower), a lady bug (joy, good luck, contentment), a shot of an awesome lightning storm (I love storms). Then I thumbed through a catalog of baby stuff: I'd like to be a mom, so I picked out a picture of a cute baby, and stuck it on my board. Next I went to the store and bought the cheapest women's magazine i could find. I figured, maybe there'd be pics of what other women wanted, I might be after the same thing, no such luck. !


*this is the second time this posting page has ate part of my posting before I can finish.

With this in mind, the last bit I have to say about this will appear in a later post, because now I'm really irritated, and will be more happy to re-type the end later.
good night

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Okay, maybe cuz I'm a guy, I don't get it all the way like you do, but it seems a little bit too much work. I always found that when I stopped looking is when i found things. Also, I go to my happy place and block out any of the real world when Oprah talks or is mentioned in my home. Especially if she tries to talk about her va-jay-jay. Sorry... I am veering off course here. Good luck is where I was trying to go with this.
Rich

Sarah said...

Well, I actually don't fully get this. I completely understand going into the "happy place" when oprah is on. I, myself am not an avid viewer. I think maybe women, or at least some women, are perhaps in need of the visual reminder. As I'm sure you know by this juncture, we tend to have 75 different things going through our heads at any given time, least of which tends to be a personal goal.

I dont know if its a pile of crap or what. I tried the not looking for what I want, sometimes it brings me what I didnt even know I needed, but most of the time it leaves me grinding away to keep eveyone else afloat.

I don't know if this will turn out positively or not, but the one thing different i've done lately is looking for an evening or2nd shift job. I have a kind of full plate every day, but it doesnt really provide any money beyond paying my bills. Living with my parents and taking care of this farm has quashed my drive for just about anything. I'm hoping that if i can manage this, the baby, and the night time job, I might have a chance to get out of this insane asylum.

Thanks for the comment, I definetly wasn't expecting any to this far out post!